How To Write An Eye Grabbing Online Dating Profile

By Honey B. Wackx
Are you the type of person that skims a lot of online profiles because they are so dull and uninteresting? If you're creating a profile of yourself take the time to put some interesting detail into your own online profile. After speaking with several single friends I learned they like to know what books someone likes. They want to find out the types of movies a potential date or partner enjoys, and to hear about their spiritual preferences. They would like to know the persons recreational likes. Allthese things are a big to help in understanding more about the person.
So doing these things, adding more detail, being more descriptive will help your profile stand out since many people will skip those sections or put in only a word or two in them. After all if you were looking for a date you would want to find an interesting person to date. So use that to your advantage and make sure your profile has all the little extras in it to capture the attention of more potential dates.
People like to know about what a prospective date learned from past relationships. So if you can satisfy that curiosity by writing about your compassion, acceptance and other qualities itshould help considerably. If you have a lot of bitterness, anger and heavy baggage don't write about it, don't let it come through or you'll turn everyone off. If you still have a lot ofunresolved issues from past relationships it is good to try to resolve them so you don't bring them into future situations. If they can't be resolved try to suppress them or better yet hold off looking for a date until you can control your emotions and feelings and eliminate or greatly reduce issues regarding past relationships.
When you create your user name you can use a variation of your own name. Alternately you can use something that illustrates your interests such as skydive lover or masterchef etc. A lot of people love sunsets, bicycling, nature and eating out so if you do mention these things you should expand on them and mention additional interests in order to differentiate yourself from the crowd.
This way you will make yourself more unique. If you have an open mind about different spiritual traditions then it's good to list them and indicate your open mindedness. This will allow you to receive more responses. Same is also true for the categories of interests and exercise that many online dating sites include. Even if you aren't into astrology, put down your sign as some people like to use that as an indicator as well. The more you seem like an ideal match the greater your response will be.
On many of the dating and matchmaking sites the frequency of logging in will determine whether your profile will appear near the top of the list. So it's helpful to login fairly regularly as those profiles become closer to the top whenever a site's order of profiles is based on activity date. Even if you don't have time to scan its often wise on those types of sites to have a frequent login if you value being near the top of the list.
Some sites allow you to wink or smile at someone. This is good, but I think most people prefer getting an e-mail as it helps them to get to know the person a little more and is more of apersonal touch. When you get a wink or smile you can wonder if someone is just going through the whole list and doing that. Following these tips should help you meet someone moreinteresting or similar to yourself.
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About the Author: Honey B. Wackx is an aspiring author and software developer. She writes many articles for herself andother website owners. One of her favorite interests is onlinedating. Her websites are http://www.unlonely.com,http://www.recipeviewpoint.com and http://www.ezy-soft.com/.
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Relationships Found On The Internet

By Sandra L. Brown, M.A.
With the need to date fast and find quick relationships, the
internet has taken on the role of a hook-up location.
Unfortunately, it is also a potential stalking ground for
relationship seeking gone awry.
There are some inherent problems with internet relationship
seeking. It is difficult to read body language, eye lingo, and
verbal pacing of sentences via email. One of the ways people can
keep themselves safe in dating relationships is to feel and
respond to their red flags. Red flags are greatly reduced by the
inability to see first hand someone’s immediate response to
statements or questions. Email, which is usually how people
first talk when met on the internet, impairs the ability to get
early insight into potential relationship problems.
People have created false senses of intimacy via internet
relationships. I know of one woman who met a man from Iran on
the internet and went there to marry him without ever having met
him in person. It was a disaster and hard for her to get back to
the states. He was nothing that he had represented himself as.
A false sense of relationship intimacy increases rapid personal
disclosure. The relationship connection with someone online
(that you have no idea if he is safe or not or who he says he
is) becomes privy to a bulimic-like purge of personal problems
and information. This is very common for women to rapidly
disclose and over disclose personal and historical information.
Dangerous and predatory men have stated that "women who rapidly
and overly disclose make my approach easy." Men who are not
highly verbal in person may be very verbal online and the woman
perceives this as ‘relationship,’ ‘connection,’ ‘knowledge about
the person,’ and ‘intimacy.’
The internet increases relationship fantasy—you can be whoever
you want to be with someone you aren’t sure you will ever meet.
The increase in non-credible information about someone is
significantly higher. People can lie about where they live,
their marriage status, previous relationship history, career,
appearance, or criminal history.
People who are unhappy in their marriage find internet
relationships to be the perceived escape out of misery they have
been seeking. Many are disappointed (or even horrified) to find
the relationship online is all fantasy and not much reality.
Women have left husbands for online men who never materialize.
When it comes to who the person is or what the relationship is,
they find it’s more about what the person has projected and
fantasized the relationship to be—not what it will become in the
future.
While it is unlikely that internet relationship seeking will
ever disappear, women need to understand the risks of internet
hook-ups and the ways it puts a woman at a distinct disadvantage
in reading body language and red flags.
For more information on dangerous relationships, see
www.HowToSpotADangerousMan.com
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psychotherapist who worked for the past 20 years with both
female victims of violence and male perpetrators. Her interest
of practice has been in the attraction between victim and
perpetrator. http://www.HowToSpotADangerousMan.com
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First Date Talk

By Sheila Furley
The feelings of romance are known to overwhelm us. This feeling
can first manifest itself in our first dates. While we may not
always recognize this emotion when it happens to us we do feel
the need to act in some way that indicates how we are feeling.
While some people may be quite comfortable talking with their
date, others need help with their first date talk.
This first date talk that you can have can encompass many
different subjects. You will need to use the information that is
dropped or given by your date to understand their feelings. If
you are not too sure about the words that you are hearing then
you may want to look at the body language to find what is being
said.
You can get help to understand body language. This talent will
come in handy when you are interpreting a first date talk. To
find this help you can look on the internet. Here you will find
sites that can point you in the right direction with regards to
reading body language and what is really being said on a first
date talk.
While these internet sites can be of help there are people that
you know whom you can ask for help and guidance with regards to
a first date talk. With their help you can navigate the murky
waters of a potential relationship. Of course once you have been
out on a few more dates you should learn how to interpret these
signals for yourself.
In some of the dates that you will go on you will receive ideas
about what is considered as the perfect dream date. From this
first date talk you will gain an insight as to what you should
plan for other subsequent dates.
You can ask your various family members to help you plan this
perfect dream date. While this is a good idea you should
remember that your tastes and theirs may not be the same. For
this reason you should listen to the first date talk which will
tell you what you should plan on doing to help the date go well.
The activities that you will take part in while you are on your
first date should be fun. Your date should feel that going on a
date with you is time that is well spent. If you have listened
to the various first date talk signs you may notice if your date
is pleased with the way that the date went. This will indicate
their feelings on whether they want to go out with you again, or
if they would rather not see you again. The success of your
future dating plans lies in the way that you listen to your
first date talk.
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Sheila Furley has written on a number of subjects throughout the
years, she plans to release some of her articles on the
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First Date Rules

By Sheila Furley
Dates are the foundations upon which we build a relationship.
The way that we act or talk will influence how long this
relationship lasts. In order to make sure that you have a good
chance of a lasting relationship there are some rules that you
must play by. One such rule is that of the first date rule.
While you may have never heard of this rule it is one that you
should adhere to as the success story of your relationship will
come into contact with this rule. The rule is in itself simple
but many people have forgotten about it altogether. Therefore
let us just see how you come into contact with the first date
rule.
In any budding relationship you have two people who are meeting
for the first time. Since you are desirous of making this date
work you need to plan how to make your date feel comfortable in
your presence.
This means that you will need to adhere by the first date rule
of choosing a public venue to meet. The requirements for this
venue should be one that can be reached and seen with ease. You
should also make sure that it is open to the public eye and
there are enough lights around to dispel any shadows.
The main reason for this aspect of the first date rule is as
you are meeting a perfect stranger they like you will be
nervous. To help relieve this show of nerves you can have your
date in a place where you are both feeling relaxed.
Another part of the first date rule is that you should plan
your date so that it is fun but affordable. This is a necessity
as you may need emergency money. The date props that you can use
to plan your date, does not need to be in any way expensive.
In a situation like this, the first date rule is that you
should look for is that you make the date fun and enjoyable.
There are many places where you can have a first date. These can
be both inexpensive and hey romantic. For instance a picnic in
the park is a good way for you to get to know each other.
You can even plan to spend some time at an amusement park. Here
you will find that the atmosphere is filled with laughter. You
can go on rides, talk with each other, and discover your likes
and dislikes. Additionally you will find lots of delicious food
to eat. All in all a great first date venue.
While having a perfect date is not an absolute must in the
first date rule book there are times when you will need to make
do with what is at hand. The only really important aspect of the
first date rule that you need to consider is that you are
spending time with someone who could be an important part of
your future.
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years, she plans to release some of her articles on the
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First Date Advice

By Sheila Furley
For every romantic relationship there is always a beginning.
This beginning can be found in the steps of our first date. To
make any first date romantic you may want to find some helpful
first date advice.
This advice that you can get will come from a number of
different places. You should look at all of these places in
order to choose the ones that will be the most help for you. The
first place to get some first date advice could be from your
friends who have been in this same situation.
The other place where you can get first date advice is from the
internet. Here you will find many sites that can offer you help.
This help will range from simple and easy to follow first dating
activities, to treating your date right, what you should and
should not do on a first date. You will also find information
and tips to make any first date a success.
You can also ask various family members to help you plan the
perfect date. While this is a good idea you should remember that
your tastes and their may not be the same. For this reason you
should listen to the first date advice which will tell you what
you should plan on doing to help the date go well.
While all of this is helpful you should keep your options for
first date advice open. The information that you have received
can be taken in small parts which will be of help for you. As an
example you can take the first advice to plan your date. In
order not to overwhelm your date or make them feel uncomfortable
you will need to think of a public venue for the date.
The activities that you will take part in while you are at the
first date should be fun. Your date should feel that going on a
date with you was time well spent. If you have listened to the
various first date advice you may notice that you are informed
of the signs which will indicate their feelings – if they like
you enough to go out with you again or if they would rather not
see you again – about going on a second date with you.
Hopefully you will have found this first date advice to be of
help. The way that you take this advice can help you to have a
great time at your first date. You may even find that first date
advice can help you avoid the mistakes which will ruin a first
date.
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Sheila Furley has written on a number of subjects throughout the
years, she plans to release some of her articles on the
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How To Make A Long Lasting Love Relationship

By D Richards
Dating and establishing love relationships can be compared to
choosing a car. You pick out the make, model, year, color and
features that you assume are best for you. After driving your
motorcar for a couple of months, you realize that perhaps you
should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the leather
seats would have been better, or on hot sunny days, the sunroof
would have been nice. However, it is now too late so you choose
to keep your vehicle and accept the decision you made.
Love and Marriage
The same principle applies for marriages or couple
relationships. You will not live in a rose garden all the time
but there will be some severe obstacles to overcome, I'll
virtually guarantee you. However, but you have made your
decision and now you choose to make it work no matter which
marriage troubles you are experiencing.
Are the good, old love relationships gone?
Dating and marriage is different than it was thirty years ago.
Today, the divorce rate is much higher as more than 50% of all
marriages fail for one reason or another. Just thinking about
that fact makes "commitments" and marriage vows seem scary. It
seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people
has a tendency to quit trying. Dating is more like a marathon,
trying to date as many people as possible, rather than taking
time to get to know someone on a deeper level. For married
couples, divorce is not biased. Whether married for thirty years
or half a year, the outcome can be the same.
The truth is that relationships, whether dating or married, are
hard. Things do not always go perfectly, arguing and fighting
does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to
make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship,
they feel as though something vital is missing. The "spark" has
gone, leaving one or both people feeling helpless and
unfulfilled.
What's The Secret Of Everlasting Love?
Even though the odds are not perfect, it has been proven by
many people that healthy and long-lasting relationships are
definitely possible. Look at couples like for example Paul
Newman and Joanne Woodard, Danny Devito and Rhea Perlman, or
Nancy and Ronald Regan.
What secrets do and did these couples possess? The answer is:
work hard and carefully at the relationship. They made a
decision of choosing to love their mate rather than relying on
the "warm and fuzzy" feelings, which all that have been married
knows will fade sooner or later. By making love a choice, you
are making a decision that even in the bad times that you
certainly are going to experience, you stick it out.
There are hundreds of things you can do to build, strengthen,
and enhance your love relationship. You can find many good and
valuable relationship self help resources online. Remember,
small steps taken every day will add up to big successes.
About the Author: David Richards likes to give his readers
relationship and other self development information and
articles. You can read more at
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Compatibility In A Relationship

By Brigitte Meier
Harsh words, hurting comments, tears and flying household
objects - for sure, no one ever wanted that to be the everyday
routine when deciding to live together with the beloved person.
Yet, why is this such a common picture, portrayed even in many
Hollywood dramas?
Two people meet, they fall in love - that happens, in a
multitude of different ways, thousands of times all over the
world. Then, if they're lucky and everything goes well, they
decide that since they love each other so much, they want to
stay together and share a home.
Now, for married as well as unmarried couples, they have to
adjust to a new situation: Every-day-life decisions depend on
two people's opinions, preferences and wishes instead of one
before.
In single life, one's the only instance of decision on what
party to go to, when to clean the place, what to wear, what to
eat and where to go on holiday. For a divorced person,
especially with children, a lot of responsibilities are added. A
single parent has to be mother, father and breadwinner, has to
take care of education, the children's need for love and all
other problems occurring. These responsibilities, if mastered,
as well as the comparably easy life of a single person, bring a
lot of independence.
And this independence, being an advantage in the situations
described above, can turn into a problem when it comes to living
together. Suddenly, decisions need to be agreed upon by both
parties, and compromises have to be made. Especially in the
first time of living together, those incompatibilities can lead
to the actions described above.
In the adjustment period, both need to be aware of those
possible dangers and respect each other's difficulties in
getting along with the new situation. Otherwise, the feeling of
love and closeness that originated the wish to live together is
bit by bit replaced with a feeling of rejection.
The natural reaction on being criticized, misunderstood or in
any other way "attacked" is to defend oneself. If you're used to
make decisions alone, without considering another, maybe
diverging opinion, you might feel attacked when your partner
doesn't share your line of thoughts or wishes. The worst, but
unfortunately most common, because instinctively made, reaction
is to "fight back".
For example: You want to go to a party. Your partner wants to
go out for dinner. So your initial feeling is being "attacked":
Why does your partner reject your proposal, what's wrong with
it? So the instinctive reaction, from a feeling of frustration
and defiance, is to "fight back": A sharp remark, pointed at the
partner's proposal and aimed to hurt, seems to be the
appropriate reply.
Even if no further fight is following that situation, the
feeling remains and the bond between you is weakened. Now, no
one would break up because of such a little fight. But it's
damaging the bond between you, even just a little bit. And maybe
in some years, when responsibilities like an own house and
children tie you together, you'll find that the constant damage
of these little incompatibilities have left you wondering what
made you being together in the first place.
The hideous about this process is that it works so slowly.
Human beings have an astonishing ability to get used to
situations and, no matter how bad things might actually be,
accept them sooner or later as normal. So out of pure habit, we
tolerate the incompatibilities we have to build a wall between
us instead of stopping, sitting down and sorting things out.
When some years of low-level fighting (not bad enough to make
you break up, but bad enough to slowly poison your relationship)
have passed, it's nearly impossible to fix the damage done and
to erase the barriers that have hardened over the time.
In order to avoid a situation where the only alternatives are
professional advice or divorce, some guidelines can help keeping
things from going that far to the bad side.
Control yourself. By observing your reactions and the resulting
tension between you and your partner, you'll be able to easily
isolate the kind of feeling that makes you react sharp and
hurting. So once you know where your weakness lies, keep
yourself from reacting immediately upon those triggers. Think
twice, and consider if your ego (nothing else you're pleasing
with a sharp reply) is worth hurting your beloved one. In most
situations, a second of silence is enough to make you regret the
answer you would have given. Don't get it wrong, it doesn't mean
you always have to step back. There are situations when a
confrontation is necessary - you just have to learn how to
distinguish them.
Reflect on your words. Imagine the same situation, just with
exchanged roles. Of course, you have to be so fair to admit if
you would be hurt in your partner's place. Now that you imagined
the impact your reaction would have on yourself, think twice
again if it's worth it.
Stay cool. The worst things are said and done in anger. If you
focus on what you want to achieve, there is mostly a better way
than a violent verbal or even physical reaction. Or do you
really think that your partner would give in to you shouting,
and even be happy with that?
Be ready to share responsibility. Especially for single
parents, it's difficult to get used to trusting someone else
again. But without trust, your relationship won't last.
Be realistic. When you move together with another person, that
means that your way of life will radically change. Your
independence will be replaced by interdependence: You'll be less on
your own, but mostly with our partner. You'll spend less time
with our friends and more time together. In result, you'll have
to compromise on what you're going to do with your time - the
more your interests diverge, the tougher it'll be to find
acceptable compromises.
Consider this carefully, and if you think that you're not ready
for it, tell your partner - before it's too late.
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Love And Romance - Understanding Emotions

By Peter J Granger
In life we are taught a great many things, but for some reason
we do not learn much about emotions! For most of us our emotions
are something of a mystery. We know that we have them but have
little idea where they come from or how we can experience them
more positively.
A useful model developed, by psychologist Dr C. Spezzano,
allows us to become more self-aware and to better understand our
emotions. At any point in life, our emotions will be experienced
from any of six different perspectives.
Denial > Resistance > Pain > Guilt > Fear > Love
Denial - Many of our fears and insecurities are hidden beneath
the surface of our conscious minds and we can therefore be
completely unaware of them and how they affect our lives. We are
often in denial of these insecurities - an unconscious strategy
designed to avoid us having to face the emotional pain that we
believe might overwhelm us if we were to unearth our hidden
fears. We hide them away for protection and then try to get on
with life. Unfortunately, these insecurities have a nasty habit
of reappearing in our lives as emotional trauma, relationship
difficulties and even health problems.
Resistance - Life will through all sorts of challenges at us
and these will raise the emotional temperature. In a struggle to
keep our insecurities at bay and avoid feeling our negative
emotions we will tend to resist anybody or anything in life that
might trigger these unpleasant sensations. This normally
involves some form of compensatory behavior or distraction from
anything that could trigger our pain. Trying to be very
successful in education or work to gain approval, or trying to
be a really 'nice' person would be typical examples of
compensations, but there are many, many more.
Pain - Sooner or later, usually due to traumatic events in our
life, the resistance is broken and we begin to feel emotional
pain. Our reaction is to either bury it again through more
resistance and denial or hand the pain to somebody else - we
tend to blame other people for our negative emotions. This is
what happens in bad behavior, arguments and rows as we judge and
project our pain outwards into the world.
Guilt - Under our tendency to blame other people for our
problems is a usually unconsciously held belief that, in fact,
we are to blame. This guilt is based around our low self esteem
and unworthiness that we take on at a very early age and comes
out of a belief that we have let people down (often our parents)
and hurt people in some way. Self-blame and guilt are always
mistakes and much of our work focuses on letting go of these
damaging emotions. More information on Guilt & Low Self Esteem
Fear - All these negative emotions are actually hiding our
deeply buried fears. There will be many different fears that we
are unwilling to deal with, but ultimately these will boil down
to our fears about being abandoned, rejected and unloved. As we
gain confidence and greater emotional awareness we are able to
feel, understand and let go of these fears.
Love - As we face and heal our fears, rather than suppressing
or denying them, we discover that they hide our natural state -
that of love, spirit and pure positive energy. As we strip away
the pain, guilt and fear we are left with the beauty of our
essence - full of creativity, abundance and joy.
We usually experience these emotional responses sequentially.
They appear as layers in our reaction to people and events in
our lives. Our negative emotions can be understood as our
defense mechanism to avoid feeling pain, guilt and fear, that
usually originates in our childhood. If we want to gain more
emotional awareness and maturity we need to work down through
our emotional layers and heal or our insecurities and fears. By
understanding the layered nature of emotions we begin to
understand why we have certain thoughts and feelings and also
understand the people around us better. Ultimately we can let go
of all the negative emotions and bring more love into our lives
and improve our relationships and romantic experiences.
About the Author: Peter Granger is an acclaimed relationship
counselor and life coach. He runs relationship and
self-development workshops in the UK. He has recently launched a
book called True Love - The Amazing Truth About Love,
Relationships & Life. For more free relationship advice and
information about his book, go to http://www.iloveyouloveme.com
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Correctly Dating By Matchmaking Using Computers

Correctly Dating By Matchmaking Using Computers
By James Brown

Some people feel inferior when they visit nightclubs and try dating men and women that they meet while dancing or other forms of socializing. They have to rely on the information that the person tells them and might not know if it is true for a very long time. Some people do not like this feeling very much and choose to start correctly dating by matchmaking using computers.

Several matchmaking sites ask daters to answer all sorts of questions for a very good reason. These questions are to be answered honestly and some critical thinking might be required to be able to provide an answer with some honesty. To correctly date with the help of a matchmaking computer, a dater must provide answers to all questions and some people do not want to answer some of them.

The questions center around all parts of a persons personality and then delve into their values. Some people tend to get quite paranoid after many of these questions are answered because they can get very personal. These answers are meant to drive people to bear their souls and provide answers that they might not want anyone else to know.

This type of matchmaking will allow computers to pair people up in many areas of life. Since marriage is usually the sought after goal, it helps to know that the person you have been matched with has answered as honestly as the other person has even if it means mentioning things like stealing when they were a child. This starts the ball rolling on couples building trust and accepting the faults that they find in people who they might have met through an internet connection and the matchmaking website.

Some online matchmaking daters are pleasantly surprised when they talk to a person that filled out a profile for the first time. Each of them knows in a instant that they have so many things in common because a computer program told them so before they made the first contact. Using matchmaking computer programs to sort through the quagmire of possible dates alleviates a lot of stress on daters who are tired of the bars and unfulfilled dreamers that they dated.

Many matchmaking pursuits go faster than some people are comfortable with but since they were honest at the start, it is a good bet that the other person will be willing to wait a while before pushing further to meet the person in real life. The matching techniques will be tested repeatedly to see if the person is the right one and most often these matchmaking programs have picked the right person and it only takes time for the other person to know it.
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7 Signs He Is Interested

7 Signs He Is Interested
By Marie-Claire Smith
Are you actively flirting with a guy you see frequently but having trouble knowing for sure whether he might want to get together? It can be frustrating not knowing whether he may feel the same way as you do. Wouldn’t it be great to be able to read his mind? While that may not be possible, there are a number of telltale signs that he is probably very interested. Here are 7 of those signs:

Sign #1: He uses your name often when he speaks to you: If he likes you, your name is literally music to his ears and he will want to say it often. It makes him feel good to say your name.

Sign #2: He tends to brush up against or touch you: Those little innocent brushes in the hallway or light touches on the shoulder at your desk are not by accident. They are ways of being closer to you and are a prelude to more intimate physical touching.

Sign #3: He ignores you at odd times: If he is unsure about how you feel about him, he may actually try ignoring you at certain times. He may be nervous about what to say, or he could be afraid that you will catch a glimpse in his eyes of how he really feels about you.

Sign #4: You are good friends but he avoids talking about his love life: If you two are friends but he wants more, he may conspicuously avoid telling you about whom he is dating or he may leave key details out. This is a classic sign that he is trying to protect your feelings and also that he is trying not hamper the possibility of dating you in the future.

Sign #5: He tends to ignore other women when you are around: For example, if there are three attractive women in the room and he is giving you by far the most attention, that is a huge sign that he likes you.

Sign #6: He looks for your reaction first when he tells a joke: If you are in a group situation and he tells what he thinks is a funny joke, he will give his first eye contact after the punch line to the person on whom he has a crush.

Sign #7: His close friends ask you about whom you are dating: Do you find that his friends have asked you about your love life? They may be trying to find out more information and then feeding it back to him so that he can stay informed.

Once you know are fairly sure that he likes you, it is time to take action. Put together a step-by-step plan for getting him to fall for you.
About the Author: Want to bring that special person back into your life? Here is a guide that has helped many others like you to fall in love again: http://www.Earth-Matters.com/
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Finding Love This Christmas

By Neil Whiteland
Christmas can be a special and happy time – but it can also be
lonely. And if you are hoping perhaps for some romance and the
chance to meet another, these tips may help.
1 When you go out, and especially when there is the chance of
possible socializing, make an effort with your appearance. Put
on something you like and feel suits you. Also give attention to
your hair and general grooming, perhaps adding a dash of your
favorite perfume or aftershave. By making an effort with how you
look, it can help make you feel special and give you a general
lift.
2 Take up social opportunities. If there is an office party or
the company you work for holds a Christmas event go along.
Similarly if there is a special occasion or gathering in your
area, consider going. Have a look in your local paper and see
what events there are. Also are there any local hobby or
interest groups that appeal and you can join? The main thing is
that this can be a good time to get out and with opportunities
to meet others. It is by taking action and being involved you
will have more chance to meet people.
3 Think positive. Although you may feel lonely and despair over
your situation, think of your qualities. Think of the
compliments others have paid you and personal successes you have
enjoyed. Think well of yourself and say some positive
affirmations. ‘I am friendly,’ ‘I like meeting people,’ ‘I am at
ease in company,’ ‘I am interesting to be with,’ ‘I am … ‘and
add your own words. Remember, as you think, so you become and
regularly repeating positive affirmations to yourself will help.
4 The art of good conversation is being a good listener. When
you meet another, be attentive and listen. By listening and
taking in what is being said you will be showing courtesy and
respect and this will be appreciated. Also keep your
conversations upbeat. By listening and responding in a positive
way will not only help you to impress but can also make your
conversations more interesting.
5 Do something different. Sometimes it can be easy to fall into
a routine, perhaps going to the same place for a drink or for
lunch. Try going somewhere new for a change. Ask your friends or
colleagues for places they recommend and try them out. By making
changes you will find this can lead you to meeting new people.
December is often a month of fine social opportunity and, by
being active and making an effort, who knows who you may meet
and what may come as a result?
About the Author: Neil Whiteland is a British writer who has
written much on relationships and realizing potential. For more
information on how to meet others and in making yourself
irresistible, visit http://www.gr8romance.com
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