Christmas can be a special and happy time – but it can also be
lonely. And if you are hoping perhaps for some romance and the
chance to meet another, these tips may help.
1 When you go out, and especially when there is the chance of
possible socializing, make an effort with your appearance. Put
on something you like and feel suits you. Also give attention to
your hair and general grooming, perhaps adding a dash of your
favorite perfume or aftershave. By making an effort with how you
look, it can help make you feel special and give you a general
lift.
2 Take up social opportunities. If there is an office party or
the company you work for holds a Christmas event go along.
Similarly if there is a special occasion or gathering in your
area, consider going. Have a look in your local paper and see
what events there are. Also are there any local hobby or
interest groups that appeal and you can join? The main thing is
that this can be a good time to get out and with opportunities
to meet others. It is by taking action and being involved you
will have more chance to meet people.
3 Think positive. Although you may feel lonely and despair over
your situation, think of your qualities. Think of the
compliments others have paid you and personal successes you have
enjoyed. Think well of yourself and say some positive
affirmations. ‘I am friendly,’ ‘I like meeting people,’ ‘I am at
ease in company,’ ‘I am interesting to be with,’ ‘I am … ‘and
add your own words. Remember, as you think, so you become and
regularly repeating positive affirmations to yourself will help.
4 The art of good conversation is being a good listener. When
you meet another, be attentive and listen. By listening and
taking in what is being said you will be showing courtesy and
respect and this will be appreciated. Also keep your
conversations upbeat. By listening and responding in a positive
way will not only help you to impress but can also make your
conversations more interesting.
5 Do something different. Sometimes it can be easy to fall into
a routine, perhaps going to the same place for a drink or for
lunch. Try going somewhere new for a change. Ask your friends or
colleagues for places they recommend and try them out. By making
changes you will find this can lead you to meeting new people.
December is often a month of fine social opportunity and, by
being active and making an effort, who knows who you may meet
and what may come as a result?
About the Author: Neil Whiteland is a British writer who has
written much on relationships and realizing potential. For more
information on how to meet others and in making yourself
irresistible, visit http://www.gr8romance.com
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